t.s  | merge t with simple s | 
 {t}  | make t simple | 
	The first will enlarge t to also "cover" the "simple" s
	(simple means that it cannot have changes etc. attached unless
	encapsulated in {}s).	 Here is an example where we merge and
	frame:
\xymatrix @R=1pc {
 1,1 & 1,2 & 1,3 & 1,4 & 1,5 \\
 2,1 & 2,2 & 2,3 & 2,4 & 2,5
 \save "1,2"."2,4"*[F.]\frm{}
  \ar"1,1" \ar"2,1" \ar"1,5" \ar"2,5"
 \restore }
will typeset

	As you can see, the center of the merged object is the same as the
	one of the target before the ".."
	Finally a more advanced example where we create two merged objects
	with center in their "real" center, name them and then connect
	to them.  It also shows how macros can be used inside diagrams: they
	should always expand to "commands" like \ar..., etc.:

can be typeset by
\def\g#1{\save
 [].[dr]!C="g#1"*[F]\frm{}\restore}%
\xymatrix{
 \g1 A\ar[r]&B\ar[d]&\g2 A'\ar[r]&B'\ar[d]\\
     C\ar[u]&D\ar[l]&    C'\ar[u]&D'\ar[l]
 \ar @{.>}  "g1" ;"1,4"
 \ar @{-->} "2,1";"g2" }
	Then we can make arrows from/to the two frames by using the two new
	targets "g1" and "g2" as shown.